Wondering what happens at a wedding DJ planning meeting? Here's exactly what you'll cover so you walk in prepared and walk out confident.
A planning meeting covers your timeline, key songs (first dance, parent dances, entrance), must-play and do-not-play lists, announcements and pronunciations, special moments, and logistics like setup and ceremony audio. It's where your DJ turns your vision into a concrete plan for the day.
The planning meeting is where a good DJ earns their value — long before the wedding. Here's what to expect.
What You'll Cover
| Topic | Details |
|---|---|
| Timeline | Order and timing of the reception |
| Key songs | First dance, parent dances, entrance |
| Must-play / do-not-play | Your music direction |
| Announcements | Names, pronunciations, intros |
| Special moments | Traditions, surprises, games |
| Logistics | Setup, ceremony audio, venue details |
The Timeline
You'll walk through the reception order — entrance, dinner, toasts, dances, cake, open dancing — and your DJ helps you pace it so the night flows and the dance floor fills at the right time.
Your Music
You'll lock in the signature songs and share your must-play and do-not-play lists. A good DJ also asks about your overall vibe and crowd so they can curate the rest and read the room on the day.
Names and Announcements
This is where you provide the correct names and pronunciations for your wedding party and family — the detail that makes a grand entrance flawless. You'll also decide how you want to be introduced.
Logistics
You'll confirm venue details, setup access, ceremony audio needs, and any special requests. A prepared DJ uses this to plan equipment and timing precisely.
How to Prepare
Bring your rough timeline, your song ideas, your wedding-party list, and any traditions or surprises. Don't worry about having everything figured out — that's what the meeting is for. Book your planning meeting.
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